你是我的唯一原因

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你是我的唯一原因

You Are all My Reasons

绘◎也圆

Nash: Thank you. I've always believed in numbers, in the equations①equation英 [ɪ'kweɪʒ(ə)n] 美 [ɪ'kweʒn] n. 方程式，等式；相等；[化学] 反应式and logics that lead to reason. But after a lifetime of such pursuits, I ask, "What truly is logic? Who decides reason?" My quest has taken me through the physical, the metaphysical②metaphysical英 [metə'fɪzɪk(ə)l] 美 [,mɛtə'fɪzɪkl] adj. 形而上学的；超自然的；玄学派诗歌的, the delusional — and back. And I have made the most important discovery of my career, the most important discovery of my life: It is only in the mysterious equations of love that any logical reasons can be found. I'm only here tonight because of you (his wife, Alicia). You are the reason I am. You are all my reasons. Thank you.

纳什：谢谢大家！我一直以来都坚信数字，不管是方程还是逻辑都引导我们去思考。但是在如此追求了一生后，我问自己：“逻辑到底是什么？谁决定原由？”我的追求带我穿过了物理，形而上学，幻觉，又把我带了回来。在事业上我有了重大突破，在生命中我也找到了最重要的人：只有在这种神秘的爱情方程中，才能找到逻辑或原由来。今晚我能站在这儿全是你的功劳，你是我成功的因素，也是唯一的因素。谢谢你！

1. There's no embarrassment①embarrassment英 [ɪm'bærəsmənt; em-]美 [ɪm'bærəsmənt] n. 窘迫，难堪

The number one rule with your best friends: never feel embarrassed to say what's on your mind. You can tell them anything, and I mean anything, and they won't care.

It's probably because they can relate. You're both women, so they know exactly how it feels when your emotions go haywire②haywire英 ['heɪwaɪə] 美 ['hewaɪɚ] adj. 乱糟糟的，乱七八糟的；疯狂的during that time of the month.

Explaining this to your boyfriend isn't always easy, and for the most part they just don't get it. There's no shame telling your friends about your digestive③digestive英 [daɪ'dʒestɪv; dɪ-] 美 [daɪ'dʒɛstɪv] adj. 消化的；助消化的problems or ingrown hairs - they totally understand and will never judge you for it.

2. They give great advice

The best advice usually comes from a close relative or your girlfriends. They know you very well, and because they have been through similar④similar英 ['sɪmɪlə] 美 ['sɪməlɚ] adj. 相似的situations themselves, they are always there to help you out in your time of need.

You can hardly ask your boyfriend about boy problems - it just wouldn't have the same outcome⑤outcome英 ['aʊtkʌm] 美 ['aʊt'kʌm] n. 结果，结局成果.

3. They remember the little details

A true best friend will never forget your birthday or other important dates that mean a lot to you. They make it their mission to remember the little things about you; how you two met, your favorite movie, how you like your coffee, and all of the other small details that shape you into the person you are.

Your boyfriend will probably have to be reminded of important dates and will most definitely⑥def i nitely英 ['defɪnɪtlɪ] 美 ['dɛfɪnətli] adv. 清楚地，当然；明确地，肯定地forget your anniversary⑦anniversary英 [ænɪ'vɜːs(ə)rɪ] 美 [,ænɪ'vɝsəri] n. 周年纪念日.

4. They like the same things

One of the reasons you and your girls get along so well is because you have a lot in common. They are always down to binge⑧binge英 [bɪn(d)ʒ] 美 [bɪndʒ] n. 狂欢，狂闹；放纵vt. 放纵watch Friends or Gossip Girl, which is really not your boyfriend’s kind of thing.

1.没有尴尬

与最好的朋友在一起的第一条法则：说出脑中所想永远都不会感到尴尬。你可以告诉她们你的任何想法，我说的是所有一切，而且她们不会在乎。

可能是因为她们能将心比心，你们都是女人，所以她们能够准确得知道你在每月的那个时候抓狂的感觉。

和你的男朋友解释这一点往往不容易，而且他们在大多数情况下很难理解。告诉朋友你的消化问题或者内生毛发并没有什么害羞的——她们会完全理解你，而且永远不会用这一点来评价你。

2.她们能给出很好的建议

最好的建议往往来自于最亲近的亲戚或者你的女性朋友。她们很了解你，因为她们自己也经历过类似的情况，她们总是能在你需要的时候帮助你脱离困境。

你几乎不能问你的男朋友关于男孩的问题——结果往往不会相同。

3.她们会记住小细节

真正的好朋友永远不会忘记你的生日以及其他对你很重要的日子。她们将记住你的这些小细节当做任务来做；你们两个如何认识的，你最喜欢的电影，你喜欢喝咖啡的方式，以及其他小的细节，这些都是你的特点。

你的男朋友或许需要你提醒他重要的日子，而且很可能会忘记你们的纪念日。

4.她们喜欢相同的东西

你和你的女性朋友相处特别好的原因之一就是你们有许多相同点。她们总是放纵得看《老友记》或者《绯闻女孩》，这类电视剧往往不